AGAMA

ADULTERY WINKS,ADULTERY PUTS HAND OUT,ADULTERY DOES SPLITS,HEART ADULTERY 

Month of ramadhan is moon that tremendously innocent and tremendously sacred. Have we knows with that fasting is not just bate peckish and even thirst. We have do bit too to leave immoral. But such have become fairly thing medial juvenile, earlier memadu love before gets married. Shall mutually know one and another before foster option to get married. This pacaran's activity warmer again we find at month of ramadhan, evenless draws near time get open. While waiting gets open' ngabu commits', we will witness at restaurant sort each by its couple.     

Pacaran's danger
 
Pacaran is not untrammeled of eye adultery, adultery puts hand out, adultery does splits and heart adultery. Of Hurairah's Ash, shallallahu's apostle' alaihi wa sallam states,,

كُتِبَ عَلَى ابْنِ آدَمَ نَصِيبُهُ مِنَ الزِّنَى مُدْرِكٌ ذَلِكَ لاَ مَحَالَةَ فَالْعَيْنَانِ زِنَاهُمَا النَّظَرُ وَالأُذُنَانِ زِنَاهُمَا الاِسْتِمَاعُ وَاللِّسَانُ زِنَاهُ الْكَلاَمُ وَالْيَدُ زِنَاهَا الْبَطْشُ وَالرِّجْلُ زِنَاهَا الْخُطَا وَالْقَلْبُ يَهْوَى وَيَتَمَنَّى وَيُصَدِّقُ ذَلِكَ الْفَرْجُ وَيُكَذِّبُهُ

“ Each child Adam being foredoomed by part for adulterous and it an one must happen, cannot but. Adultery second winks is by see. Second ear adultery by hears. Verbal adultery is with speaking. Adultery puts hand out is by grope (touch). Adultery does splits is by step. Heart adultery is by want and get pipe dream. Then privates which waits for will correct or beliing that such .” (HR. Moslem no. 6925)
Sms an strong arm and duan both this is shaped kholwath (louse up with type foe) one that prohibited. Although don't happen direct appointment, sms an's regular by defies type be assessed as form of kholwath's half. It prohibits to base shallallahu's Apostle the word' alaihi wa sallam,

لاَ يَخْلُوَنَّ رَجُلٌ بِامْرَأَةٍ إِلاَّ مَعَ ذِى مَحْرَمٍ

“ Don't a berduaan's male with a woman unless with mahromnya .” (HR. Bukhari no. 5233)
Why until activities upon prohibited eventually don't until do adultery or relationship heartfully within reason wife husband? Its answer, since shallallahu's Allah and Apostle' alaihi wa sallam knows the best one for its slave. So alround one will deliver on even prohibited one prohibits. Therefore, any kind that delivers on adultery, so prohibited. God Ta' ala decrees,

وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا الزِّنَا إِنَّهُ كَانَ فَاحِشَةً وَسَاءَ سَبِيلًا

“And don't you approach adultery; most verily that adultery is a villainous conduct. And a bad road.” (QS. Al Isro ’: 32). In Jalalain's Interpretation is said that prohibition in this sentence is stricter than telling ‘ Does Not do it ’. Its mean that if we approach even adultery may not, evenless until does adultery, are clear more prohibited. Asy Syaukani in Fathul Qodir says, ”If intermediate to something even is prohibitted, indeed aim it also bastard is seen from talk intention.”
While immoral is Fasting
If was clear that pacaran's activity, both duan, and takes the air by that type foe is prohibited, therefore indeed that thing gets to wreck fasting. Since fasting indeed has to leave immoral. Person that gets immoral while fasting can make its fasting reward that whacking lost or not gets absolutely.
Of Hurairah's Ash, Rasulullah shallallahu ‘ alaihi wa sallam states,

مَنْ لَمْ يَدَعْ قَوْلَ الزُّورِ وَالْعَمَلَ بِهِ فَلَيْسَ لِلَّهِ حَاجَةٌ فِى أَنْ يَدَعَ طَعَامَهُ وَشَرَابَهُ

“ Whom ever that doesn't leave falsehood talk on the contrary practises it, therefore Allah don't need from peckish taste and thirsty her one bate .” (HR. Bukhari no. 1903).
Of Hurairah's Ash, Rasulullah shallallahu ‘ alaihi wa sallam statesshallallahu ‘ alaihi wa sallam states ,

لَيْسَ الصِّيَامُ مِنَ الأَكْلِ وَالشَّرَبِ ، إِنَّمَا الصِّيَامُ مِنَ اللَّغْوِ وَالرَّفَثِ

“Fasting is not just bate eating and even drink. But then, fasting is with refrain from talk to no end and bad word.” (HR. Ibnu Khuzaimah 3: 242. Al a. ’ zhomi says that sanad hadits that shahih)
Jabir bin ‘ Abdillah Radhiyallahu' anhu says, “Suppose you fast therefore ought to hearing, sight and your oral accords to fast, which is refrain from falsehood and all bastard conduct and don't you rack your neighbour. Get poise and gets authority at your fast day. Don't you make your fast day and days do not fast you all the same.” (Latho ’ if Al Ma ’ sharp-witted, 277). Accident ‘ Ali Al Qori Rahimahullah says, “While fasts so hard prohibition to get immoral. Person that fasts but do immoral the same as with person that gets pilgrim then get immoral, which is reward in essence don't null, just perfection reward that don't it get. Person that fasts but get immoral will get fasting deserts at a swoop sin because immoral which it do.” (Mirqotul Mafatih Syarh Misykatul Mashobih, 6 / 308).
Al Baydhowi rahimahullah says, “Fasting religious service is not just refrain from peckish and even thirst. Even someone which carry on fasting wants to rein various lust and asks out soul on goodness. If is not so, severely God won't see its deed, in artian won't accept it.” (Fathul Bari, 4 / 117).
Explanation upon points out bungled person fasting that gets immoral, including in such event is person that fasts but date. Therefore, ramadan necessarily can make moment to fix self. This month of ramadhan necessarily been utilized to make self gets better. Remember as it were word ulama salaf, "Sign be accepted a deed is goodness result goodness."
 
Sail through Kosher Road
Our tips, sail through kosher road. Knowing couple not must passes pacaran. There is kosher band already been patternized Islam without must passes pacaran, over ta' aruf momentary, then decides or not to get married with that type foe. So time knows and getting married is not long time, also niatannya is subject to be serious want to build family with. Your needs that tofu pacaran is more agreeable be following after get married. Solution for the present is armed with patience and armed with patience if really was ready to get married. One any one must find that time.
Moga at barokah's full moon this, we were given by taufik by God for get obedient on it. Wallahu waliyyut taufiq.