--> CENTURY INTERACTS WITH TYPE FOE
Borne as a woman is confer that is so beautiful from God Ta ’ ala. One award that doesn't be had by a man. Most more that award crescent becomes muslimah that mukminah which is woman muslimah that devout to God.
shallallahu's prophet ‘ alaihi wa sallam states,
Borne as a woman is confer that is so beautiful from God Ta ’ ala. One award that doesn't be had by a man. Most more that award crescent becomes muslimah that mukminah which is woman muslimah that devout to God.
shallallahu's prophet ‘ alaihi wa sallam states,
الدُّنْيَا مَتَاعٌ وَخَيْرُ مَتَاعِ
الدُّنْيَا الْمَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ
“ The
world is ornamental and one carefully ornamental world be woman that shalihah.
” (HR. Moslem)
As woman muslimah that devout to God obviously are not easily,since a great many temptation godan in achieving it. Dikarenakan is reply that God even keep faith are not most compare and all woman even want it. Temptations to become shalihah's women coming oft and buoyant menggebu while we step on stripling ages,whereabouts term puberitas a woman is at this term. Not a simple one too for moslem stripling in pass this term, but severely is so beautiful to adolescent one can say graduate in pass full puberty this temptation.
One of temptation which whacking on adolescent age is “ perceive anxiety to defy type ”. Really, taste interests to defy type is human character, well woman or boy. But if we that memenej can't that feel,therefore wills be whacking debacle accident,well for thyself or even for person what does we like. Have God point out in one hadist Rasulullah shallallahu ‘ alaihi wa sallam ,
As woman muslimah that devout to God obviously are not easily,since a great many temptation godan in achieving it. Dikarenakan is reply that God even keep faith are not most compare and all woman even want it. Temptations to become shalihah's women coming oft and buoyant menggebu while we step on stripling ages,whereabouts term puberitas a woman is at this term. Not a simple one too for moslem stripling in pass this term, but severely is so beautiful to adolescent one can say graduate in pass full puberty this temptation.
One of temptation which whacking on adolescent age is “ perceive anxiety to defy type ”. Really, taste interests to defy type is human character, well woman or boy. But if we that memenej can't that feel,therefore wills be whacking debacle accident,well for thyself or even for person what does we like. Have God point out in one hadist Rasulullah shallallahu ‘ alaihi wa sallam ,
فَالْعَيْنَانِ زِنَاهُمَا النَّظَرُ
وَالأُذُنَانِ زِنَاهُمَا الاِسْتِمَاعُ وَاللِّسَانُ زِنَاهُ الْكَلاَمُ
وَالْيَدُ زِنَاهَا الْبَطْشُ وَالرِّجْلُ زِنَاهَا الْخُطَا
وَالْقَلْبُ يَهْوَى
وَيَتَمَنَّى وَيُصَدِّقُ ذَلِكَ الْفَرْجُ وَيُكَذِّبُهُ
” Adultery second winks is by see. Second ear adultery by hears. Verbal adultery is with speaking. Adultery puts hand out is by grope (touch). Adultery does splits is by step. Heart adultery is by want and get pipe dream. Then privates which waits for will correct or beliing that such. ” (HR. Moslem)
As muslimah's woman we shall be certain that honour we shall be looked after and are nursed, most more while gets communication or commune by defy that type no mudhorot (danger) or even calumny. Hereunder we will reveal bergaul 's civilizations by defies type. Amongst those:
لاَ يَخْلُوَنَّ أَحَدُكُمْ بِامْرَأَةٍ
فَإِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ ثَالِثُهُمَا
First: Prohibitted for berkholwat
(both duan)
TTM, friend but fervent, where with, to canteen with, schooled departed with, go home school with. It constitutes stripling picture by and large currently,whereabouts intercourse bounds at schooled common was really factious and breaches Islam principle. But is no matter we school at schooled common if constant can look after adb civilization interacts with type foe. If there is a berduaan's male with a female therefore that drd as associate it is devil.
Of ‘ Umar Bin Al Khottob, it gets sermon be before man at Jabiyah (a gathering place at Damaskus), then it takes Prophet the word shallallahu ‘ alaihi wa sallam ,
“ Don't amiss a between you berduaan with a woman (one that is not mahramnya) since devil is its third person, therefore barangsiap what do pride with goodness and downcast with its badness therefore she is a that believer. " (HR. Ahmad, sanad hadits this shahih)
Than devil that accompanies we angel better are not? Ngaji,read Al-quran and understands its mean and strove for theology InsyaAllah angel who will adjoin us. Obviously as woman that smart, we will be opting to be adjoined by angel.
Both of: Subduing view
View maling to female or on the contrary is included devil arrows. If only gleam just or spontaneity or not deliberate therefore doesn't become that sight problem, first view that don't deliberate be let but hereafter is prohibited. While see type foe,therefore our quick subdues that view, before dickens enters or regard think and our heart. Segera besoughts favor to God that we not go over that view.
From Jarir Bin Abdullah radhiyallahu ‘ anhu, she says, ,
سَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ -صلى الله عليه
وسلم- عَنْ نَظَرِ الْفُجَاءَةِ فَأَمَرَنِى أَنْ أَصْرِفَ بَصَرِى.
"I ask to Rasulullah Shallallahu' alaihi wasallam hit view that don't at deliberate. Therefore beliau commands me so hide my view." (HR. Moslem)
Third: Genitals guard to defy type
Look after our genitals of male view that don't mahramnya. Fathom a meaning mahram in here is male one prohibitedding to take in marriage us. One that excluding mahram as schoolmate, playfellow, pen friend even even close friend if she is not our mahram, therefore us mandatory close our genitals perfectly. Perfect intention in here which is we utilize veil that jut to go to seluruh our body and chest mantle. Intended cloth even is cloth that disyariatkan, for example cloth it may not win by a nose, may not narrow, and doesn't form our body dent. There is even that is not included genitals of a woman be palm second and face or face.
shallallahu's prophet ‘ alaihi wa sallam states,,
الْمَرْأَةُ عَوْرَةٌ فَإِذَا خَرَجَتِ
اسْتَشْرَفَهَا الشَّيْطَانُ
" That woman is genitals. If she comes out therefore devil will adorn it at winks male ." (HR. Tirmidzi, shahih )
Fourth: May not ikhtilat (louse up among woman and man)
Ikhtilat that is louse up it a woman with male at one place without available hijab. Whereabouts while no hijab or curb cloth each woman or that boy can see type foe by is so easy and at one's will it. Obviously we as muslimah's woman not wants to be made by view object by there are many male don't? Therefore we shall subdue view,such even that male under obligation same to subdue its view to woman that don't mahramnya, since it is command God in Al Qur ’ an and wills be sinning if our not mentaatinya.
To five: Looking after privates
Looking after privates also is not a simple one,since this adult yamng's adolescent myriad is ambushed into intercourse and free love. As moslem as mandatory ours know how to look after privates. Its trick for example with not see images that senonoh or arouses lust passion, ifrequently reads or watch romance stories, ifrequently converses or get communication by defy type, well bicara direct (gaze face) or even via telephone, SMS, chatting, YM and another communication media.
Was righteously as a muslimah good adolescent or mature, we have intention that obviously to obey commune civilization with that type foe. Hopefully Allah make easy our effort. Amen.
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